June 6

Scripture focus:
So, my friends, this is something like what has taken place with you. When Christ died he took that entire rule-dominated way of life down with him and left it in the tomb, leaving you free to "marry" a resurrection life and bear "offspring" of faith for God. For as long as we lived that old way of life, doing whatever we felt we could get away with, sin was calling most of the shots as the old law code hemmed us in. And this made us all the more rebellious. In the end, all we had to show for it was miscarriages and stillbirths. But now that we're no longer shackled to that domineering mate of sin, and out from under all those oppressive regulations and fine print, we're free to live a new life in the freedom of God. Romans 7:4-6 The Message

The problem with addiction is that it doesn’t satisfy. C. S. Lewis said, "If we find ourselves with a desire that nothing in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that we were made for another world." That’s a great quote.

But sometimes, when we find ourselves with a desire that nothing in this world can satisfy, we must accept the fact that we’ve messed up the pleasure center of our brain by behaving addictively. (See our video on the physiology of addiction at www.northstarcommunity.com/special for a more detailed explanation.)

When we get to this point, we begin to get a clue that we must change, stop, increase our commitment to self-discipline, etc. But the crafty, addicted brain will try to talk us out of this perspective. Here are some common ways of thinking that might indicate we’re at the end of our rope with an addiction:

* I need to stop, but now is not a good time.
* I will stop, but not right now. I’m going to do more research and figure out how to stop, then I’ll begin stopping.
* I’ll wait to stop until conditions are more favorable. No need starting when there’s too much pressure.
* I’m too tired/sick/hungry to stop today.
* The next time I have a bad consequence, I’m going to stop.
* I’ll stop after my spouse stops bugging me.

“If we let ourselves, we shall always be waiting for some distraction or other to end before we can really get down to our work. The only people who achieve much are those who want knowledge so badly that they seek it while the conditions are still unfavorable. Favorable conditions never come." - C.S. Lewis

Lewis may be right, but the addicted brain hopes for unfavorable conditions because the bottom line is this: addictions call the shots, shackling us to a domineering sin master.

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2 comments:

I Might be Wrong said...

Good Morning Anonymous,

Is today the day you will make a different choice?
Is today the day you ask for the help your post show you seek?
Is today the day when you start the process of not hiding anymore?

"If we find ourselves with a desire that nothing in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that we were made for another world."
Welcome to His world you will always have a place to belong and never be alone. It often feels different that is more about us than Him.

I pray today my phone rings
Gos Bless Yall

purposeful said...

"The problem with addiction is that it doesn’t satisfy." That is a mouthful. We have talked about the three components of addiction, tolerance, abstinence and withdrawl in the past. So with that in mind tolerance means we do something over and over and it quits working. We must do it more frequently or increase the intensity (escalate,move on to something else) the behavior to try to capture the result we initially got. Thats the insanity of addiction as tolerance deminishes the good feeling or escape of a behavior and we find ourselves eventually never being satisfied no matter what we do. Trying to recapure this high is a never fullfilling mission and eventually ends badly.

Could it be we are trying to fill the God shaped hole that we were intentially left with by our creator as HIS hope is that we will turn to HIM to fill it?

I was addicted to many things for almost 40 years of my life and until I went through the purposeful suffering of abstinence which is rewarded by the wonderful gift of withdrawl followed by a couple of years of searching for my indentity in Christ, only then did I become complete as HE fills that emptiness within me.

My forgiveness is found in HIM.

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