Day 336 – Looking for Your Guiding Star

Having a Heart in a Sometimes Heartless World

Scripture focus: After Jesus was born in Bethlehem village, Judah territory— this was during Herod's kingship—a band of scholars arrived in Jerusalem from the East. They asked around, "Where can we find and pay homage to the newborn King of the Jews? We observed a star in the eastern sky that signaled his birth. We're on pilgrimage to worship him." Matthew 2:1-2 The Message

A band of scholars, traveling across land and sea – following a star in the eastern sky. Their destination was set – they were determined to worship the newborn King of the Jews. Their mission was set before them – all they had to do was follow.

How about you? Do you ever wish your life’s purpose was so clearly defined? Have you ever longed for a sign that made everything oh-so-clear? A star, email, fax, or phone call – informing you of your mission and directing your path? How cool!

Living the satisfactory life requires us to keep our eyes on our own “Guiding Star” - and a willingness to travel over land and sea in pursuit of our own God-bestowed grand epic adventure. This month we’re going to offer a few suggestions about how one can grab a decent pair of God-vision goggles, identify the goal, and travel the journey. May your own journey be sweet!

Recommended reading: Daniel 10 and Psalm 113 in the morning; 1 John 2 and Psalm 114 in the evening


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Day 335 – Week 49 - A Big Birthday

Having a Heart in a Sometimes Heartless World


Scripture focus: The birth of Jesus took place like this. His mother, Mary, was engaged to be married to Joseph. Before they came to the marriage bed, Joseph discovered she was pregnant. (It was by the Holy Spirit, but he didn't know that.) Joseph, chagrined but noble, determined to take care of things quietly so Mary would not be disgraced. While he was trying to figure a way out, he had a dream. God's angel spoke in the dream: "Joseph, son of David, don't hesitate to get married. Mary's pregnancy is Spirit-conceived. God's Holy Spirit has made her pregnant. She will bring a son to birth, and when she does, you, Joseph, will name him Jesus—'God saves'—because he will save his people from their sins." This would bring the prophet's embryonic sermon to full term: Watch for this—a virgin will get pregnant and bear a son; they will name him Immanuel (Hebrew for "God is with us"). Then Joseph woke up. He did exactly what God's angel commanded in the dream: He married Mary. But he did not consummate the marriage until she had the baby. He named the baby Jesus. Matthew 1:18-25 The Message

Recently I’ve been feeling sympathy for the fathers of brides. Pete and I watched the Steve Martin movie – “Father of the Bride” – and that triggered my empathy. Have you ever watched the role assigned to most dads at this pivotal time in a family’s life? They hand over fists full of money – and aren’t supposed to question the validity of renting live swans to wander around during the wedding reception. They’re asked to wear a tux – whether they like them or not – and accept their penguiny fate without complaint. Perhaps the most heart wrenching role of any dad is the moment they walk their baby down the aisle – and hand her off to her groom. Dad didn’t get a vote in who he would be handing his princess to – even though he spent years completely committed to providing and protecting his daughter. Suppose the guy doesn’t like sports? Worse – what if he pulls for the wrong teams? What’s his voting record? Does he have a job? Could he ever love this woman as much as this father adores his baby girl?

Joseph, chagrined but noble… is another dad who deserves a lot of respect. If Mary was considered an unwed teenage mother by her community – even though she was in fact a virgin given an amazing responsibility by God – how did this village view Joseph? The choices are limited. Either he was ignoble – fooling around with his teenage fiancĂ© – or a fool – engaged to a young girl who cheated on him. It’s times like this when one’s character is revealed. And it turns out, that while much has been made about God’s selection of Mary for Jesus’ mother – I think Joseph deserves some special attention too. When God was choosing Mary, I think he also had his eye on Joseph! Egos can be fragile things. But when faced with certain embarrassment – Joseph was more concerned about Mary’s reputation then his own. determined to take care of things quietly so Mary would not be disgraced.

Jesus had an awesome mom AND earthly dad. One of the characteristics that made them both worthy of God’s selection was their willingness to think not only about themselves, but others too. If we’re going to live a satisfying life, this is a characteristic each of us will need to acquire. The highest calling of any life is not personal satisfaction – it is when we can help others live well. As 2008 draws to a close, it’s my prayer that this is something we’ve each experienced this year – this growing commitment to the well being of others – and if, perchance we find ourselves lacking in this area – perhaps this would be a great thing to put on our “must do” list for 2009.

Recommended reading: Daniel 8 and 9 in the morning; 1 John 2 and Psalm 112 in the evening


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Day 334 – Week 48 at a glance

Having a Heart in a Sometimes Heartless World


Scripture focus: Who believes what we’ve heard and seen? Who would have thought God’s saving power would look like this? The servant grew up before God – a scrawny seedling, a scrubby plant in a parched field. There was nothing attractive about him, nothing to cause us to take a second look. Isaiah 53:1-2 The Message

This week we’ve focused on becoming sons and daughters of THE king.

We made a distinction between children and adults, sons and daughters.

We talked about the difference between believing something and becoming a follower.

We considered how life might look different if we truly followed God, rather than just believing that he exists.

Finally, we’ve begun to turn our attention to some of the lame excuses me might use to think about ourselves as “less thans” – children not fit to wear the mantle of responsibility that comes with heirs to the kingdom.

You’ve completed three hundred thirty five days of a three hundred sixty six day journey. This also means we’ve completed the month of November. One more month to go – and if we finish the race, and we’ve chosen to read the recommended reading – we will have also read through the bible in one year. Whew!

Recommended reading: Daniel 7 and 8 in the morning; 1 John 1 and Psalm 111 in the evening



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Day 333 – Hanging from the family tree

Having a Heart in a Sometimes Heartless World


Scripture focus: Matthew 1 The family tree of Jesus Christ, David's son, Abraham's son: 2-6Abraham had Isaac, Isaac had Jacob, Jacob had Judah and his brothers, Judah had Perez and Zerah (the mother was Tamar), Perez had Hezron, Hezron had Aram, Aram had Amminadab, Amminadab had Nahshon, Nahshon had Salmon, Salmon had Boaz (his mother was Rahab), Boaz had Obed (Ruth was the mother), Obed had Jesse, Jesse had David, and David became king. 6-11 David had Solomon (Uriah's wife was the mother), Solomon had Rehoboam, Rehoboam had Abijah, Abijah had Asa, Asa had Jehoshaphat, Jehoshaphat had Joram, Joram had Uzziah, Uzziah had Jotham, Jotham had Ahaz, Ahaz had Hezekiah, Hezekiah had Manasseh, Manasseh had Amon, Amon had Josiah, Josiah had Jehoiachin and his brothers, and then the people were taken into the Babylonian exile. 12-16 When the Babylonian exile ended, Jeconiah had Shealtiel, Shealtiel had Zerubbabel, Zerubbabel had Abiud, Abiud had Eliakim, Eliakim had Azor, Azor had Zadok, Zadok had Achim, Achim had Eliud, Eliud had Eleazar, Eleazar had Matthan, Matthan had Jacob, Jacob had Joseph, Mary's husband, the Mary who gave birth to Jesus, the Jesus who was called Christ. 17 There were fourteen generations from Abraham to David, another fourteen from David to the Babylonian exile, and yet another fourteen from the Babylonian exile to Christ.

I have a friend who thinks her family tree disqualifies her from the kingdom of heaven. She’s decided that nothing good can come from her messed up and mixed up family – and so she lives each day trying to prove herself right. She has sex with men she makes pay for the privilege and does drugs like it’s her legacy. She’s abandoned her children and cheated on her husband. She’s stolen from her family and betrayed her friends. She’s a mess. Now, she’ll tell you that this is her parents’ fault. But what she really believes is that it is her destiny – and she’s just hanging from her family tree. When I look at her, I see a different woman. I see her true, God-created identity. I see her intelligence and ever-increasing glory potential. She, however, dismisses my viewpoint. Oh, how I wish she had studied the family tree of Jesus! Jesus grew up in a dysfunctional family – from a human perspective. His family tree is littered with “less thans” and losers. In the first place, women are mentioned in his family tree. This is a departure from tradition. Women usually weren’t given any attention in the mapping out of families in his day. When Matthew wrote down this account, it would be logical to think that perhaps he included the women because they were so…special…stellar…heroines of their day. Let’s take a look and see.

=The first woman in this list is Tamar. For a full account of her misdeed, see Genesis 38. She was the woman who posted as a prostitute and seduced her father-in-law. It’s a sordid tale – check it out.

=Rahab was a prostitute. Her life, and the lives of her family were spared by Joshua, because she protected the men he had sent to spy on her town. But she was still a lady of the evening.

=Ruth was a Moabite – a “less than” who married above her station. She turned out to also be a loyal daughter-in-law. But she’d still be considered a disgrace and an unwelcome member of the clan of her husband.

=Bathsheba, Uriah’s wife, was the mother of Solomon. But his daddy was David – so this makes him the son of adultery. Lest we forget, Uriah was murdered in order to protect the secret of this infidelity. What kind of legacy is that for a boy?

=Finally, we come to Mary. In her day she was considered an unwed teenage mother – not the mother of a Savior. Have you got some rascals hanging from your family tree? Maybe some genetic predispositions that you think hold you back from your grand epic adventures? Think again, my friend. God’s prevailing purposes prevail even in the face of all sorts of human limitations. May you swing from the limbs of your family tree today without shame, blame or condemnation! I pray that you see yourself as God sees you today!

Recommended reading: Daniel 6 and Psalm 109 in the morning; 2 Peter 3 and Psalm 110 in the evening



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Day 332 – At Risk

Having a Heart in a Sometimes Heartless World


Scripture focus: “I am honored all over the world. And there are people who know how to worship me all over the world, who honor me by bringing their best to me. They’re saying it everywhere: ‘God is greater, this God-of-the-Angel-Armies.’ All except you. Instead of honoring me, you profane me. You profane me when you say, ‘Worship is not important, and what we bring to worship is of no account,’ and when you say, ‘I’m bored – this doesn’t do anything for me.’ You act so superior, sticking your noses in the air – act superior to me, God-of-the-Angel-Armies! And when you do offer something to me, it’s a hand-me-down, or broken, or useless. Do you think I’m going to accept it? This is God speaking to you!” Malachi 1:11-13 The Message

Every holiday season I’m aware of all the people out there who can’t wait for the celebrations to end. They’re in a season of loss and grief, suffering and despair – they do not welcome the interruption of Thanksgiving and Christmas, Hanukkah and the other faith festivities that fall during this time of year. They scoff and talk about the “commercialism” of the season. They complain about Christmas decorations appearing before Halloween – and to an extent, I agree with the sentiment. But in our cynicism – I fear we become the problem rather than a part of the solution to our seasonal moodiness.

No matter what the motivation or the miscalculations of others – you and I can commit to living out the true meaning of the seasons we celebrate. We can choose to follow God rather than the marketing trends. We can be wowed by the true meaning of the season more than Neiman Marcus’s latest Christmas gift suggestions for the rich and famous. We can choose differently – and in so doing, make the world a better place.

“This is what we were created for. This is life at its very best. And God has made it possible by giving us himself. We have his life in us, his Spirit dwelling in us. We actually have the option now of choosing this life, which is the highest form of living – to share the heart and mind of God in all things. Everything that is happening in us and around us is a context and an opportunity for this realignment. I could seek to embrace his view of things, yearn to desire what he desires. It seems this is the basic difference in the way people live – we are either seeking this sort of alignment, this genuine companionship with God, or, we are just living our lives as it seems best to us. One group may find it beset to indulge flagrantly; another might be trying to master religious principles. But this sort of intimacy with God is unmistakable, because it is so utterly alluring and so rare. It sort of makes things simple again. I at least know that whatever is going on, I always have one option. I can seek to be aligned with the heart and mind of God. I can become more his son.” (John Eldredge, October 2008 newsletter)

I don’t know whether you’re hoping this holiday will be your best ever – or dreading it like the plague. Either way, in every moment, you can seek to align your heart and mind with God. So here’s what I’m planning on doing this season – I’m not skipping my daily devotionals just so I can hang extra whosits and whatsits from my tree. I’m not going to forego worship for an extra trip to the mall. I’m not going to spend more money on myself and those I love than on giving to those who won’t have a Christmas if I don’t pitch in and help them out. That’s my commitment to alignment. What’s yours?

Recommended reading: Daniel 5 and Psalm 108 in the morning; 2 Peter 2 and Psalm 109 in the evening




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Day 331 – Home at last

Having a Heart in a Sometimes Heartless World

Scripture focus: Christ brought us together through his death on the Cross. The Cross got us to embrace, and that was the end of the hostility. Christ came and preached peace to you outsiders and peace to us insiders. He treated us as equals, and so made us equals. Through him we both share the same Spirit and have equal access to the Father. You’re no longer wandering exiles. This kingdom of faith is now your home country. You’re no longer strangers or outsiders. You belong here, with as much right to the name Christian as anyone. God is building a home. He’s using us all – irrespective of how we got here – in what he is building. Now he’s using you, fitting you in brick by brick, stone by stone, with Christ Jesus as the cornerstone that holds all the parts together. We see it taking shape day after day – a holy temple built by God, all of us built into it, a temple in which God is quite at home. Ephesians 2, selected verses beginning at verse 16 in The Message

Today is Thanksgiving; many of us will be returning to our family homes. Some of us will be unable to make the trip – even though we really want to be with our families. I know in our family, one seat will be empty this year – and we will miss our boy and brother, grandson and nephew. Today his feet will be parked under someone else’s table. For a few of us, we’re hoping to avoid a family fracas – so we’re skipping the event altogether. And there’s probably a soul or two out there who isn’t welcome at his/her family table today.

No matter where you fit on the complicated spectrum of family harmony or conflict – I’ve got good news for you. Whether you feel like an outsider or insider – you have been given the gift of home. It may not look the way you want it to. The address may not be an old familiar one. But there’s a family that welcomes you – whether you’ve been naughty or nice.

Your seat at the table was bought at a great price – by a brother named Jesus. He paid for your ticket into the family of God by doing something for you that you could never do for yourself – he bought your pardon. He wiped your slate clean.

So find the table. Pull up a chair and dig into the feast.

You belong.

Not to sound like a preacher or anything – but if you don’t have this home, go find it. Your place is empty and waiting for you. You may have to visit some houses before you find the one that feels like home – so get busy. May you find the community that is missing you this very minute – and take your rightful place at the table. It’s my prayer that next year this time, you will be thrilled about your holiday plans. May today be a day where you take a step closer to finding your true home, in the family of God.

Recommended reading: Daniel 4 and Psalm 106 in the morning; 2 Peter 1 and Psalm 107 in the evening


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