Day 362 – Attitude is a big deal
Having a Heart in a Sometimes Heartless World
Having a Heart in a Sometimes Heartless World
Scripture focus: God's Way is not a matter of mere talk; it's an empowered life. So how should I prepare to come to you? As a severe disciplinarian who makes you toe the mark? Or as a good friend and counselor who wants to share heart-to-heart with you? You decide. 1 Corinthians 4:19-21 The Message
Yesterday’s devotional challenged each of us to consider our need for change and transformation. It wasn’t stated exactly in those words – but that certainly was the implication. When we realize that we’ve got stuff left to learn and tools we need to acquire in order to live a satisfying life – how we approach this growth opportunity is key.
In 1 Corinthians, Paul is a spiritual mentor to a group of people we can all relate to – they also need to make some adjustments. He’s fueled with the knowledge that living life God’s way holds promise and potential – an empowered life.
But he’s also aware that his students have shown some reluctance to follow his lead. And maybe he’s a touch frustrated.
So in the spirit of the advice-giving mood I find myself in – can I shout out a word of support for sponsors, spiritual mentors, teachers, spiritual guides, parents, and counselors – and their sponsees? If you’ve enlisted the support of a community of people to guide you in the transformation process – a move that I applaud as both wise and courageous – then this message is for you.
No one accepts your ask for help without some personal cost. Someday, as you strengthen your own recovery muscles, you’ll understand – because I have no doubt that you too will follow in their footsteps. Whether you are mentor or mentee – a good attitude makes the process so much more pleasant, even a joy!
So, for the helpers of the world – if you get too tired to help – take a timeout. No one needs a grumpy mentor!
If you are currently a helpee – please try to remember to express appreciation to your helper. If you don’t think your helper is helping – stop asking for help from them!!! Trust me, they’ll appreciate it that you are respecting their time too. It’s very hard to receive advice and act on it. It’s impossible if the listener goes into the experience without trust in the advisor. It’s perfectly okay, even acceptable and wise – to find an advisor that is a good fit for you.
In all things remember this: God's Way is not a matter of mere talk; it's an empowered life.
Recommended reading: Zechariah 12 and 13 in the morning; Revelation 18 and Psalm 127 in the evening
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