August 27
Scripture focus: A right time for...a right time to [repeat thirteen times]...see Ecclesiastes 3:2-8
Have you ever wondered if your boundaries are too thick?
People who say "no" to good things may fall into that category.
It's a wonderful thing to serve others – but it is also a gift to accept help.
People who believe that their problems and legitimate wants are bad, harmful or shameful have developed an avoidant pattern of letting good into their lives. These folks often fail to have appropriate boundaries (can't say "no" to anyone) but too thick boundaries in other areas (can't say "yes" to an offer for help).
There is indeed a right time for giving and receiving.
If we're finding ourselves burned out, drained and tired of doing good, it may be because we've been doing more "good" than God intended and refusing the "good" He has offered for our replenishment.
Healthy boundaries help us rest and recharge so that we can be strong and available when called upon to serve.
Recommended reading: 1 Chronicles10-12
1 comment:
Receiving help has been the most difficult thing I've done in my life. Opening myself up to the embarrassment of my inadequecies is a very humbling experience. I thank God for NorthStar because it was there that I learned to trust enough to open up.
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